Breakfasts of Christmas Past
My parents recently sent out an email asking ten specific questions about what my siblings and I remembered about our childhood Christmases. "How tall was our tallest tree?" "Who was first to get up Christmas morning?" "What's the most number of branches we tied to a tree to fill it out?" (Our trees were always natural trees that had the misfortune to grow on their own on our farm — cosmetic branch-adjustments to improve their shape was SOP — "donor-limb" trees were also misfortunate.)
As we chimed in, our memories reflected each of our different takes on Christmas and our positions in the hierarchy of childhood. The only detail we all agreed on was we'd gather in my parents' bedroom at 5:00 AM (it was strictly against the rules to arrive earlier so we all gathered in my room beginning about 4:00 until it was time). Then we'd rush to my parents' room and sit on the bed with my mother while Dad went into the living room, "To make sure Santa had been there" — and if I remember correctly start the coffee for Mom and him.
Our memories reflected each of our different takes on Christmas and our positions the hierarchy of childhood.
Note, this business of gathering in my parents bedroom first continued long after we'd all ceased believing in Santa. Even after my youngest brother (10 years behind me) had given up on the Santa myth because he continued to wake up at 4:00 for several years and gathering on Christmas morning meant we all had to enter together. We were all happy when Kerry learned to sleep in on Christmas morning."Santa" never wrapped presents when he visited us and so those unwrapped gifts would distract us while the coffee finished perking. Then, once we'd completely explored Santa's gifts it was time for the real gift-giving. My father would hand out the wrapped gifts, one-by-one, calling out the name of the giver and recipient one at a time to each of us. No other gift was given until the current one was unwrapped and properly appreciated by everyone as something extraordinary, something deserving of special note — with appropriate sounds of appreciation for each gift given by everyone.
Each gift meant some shuffling around on hands and knees and even getting up off the floor to give the giver a sincere "thank you" and a hug. Christmas morning was a long, drawn-out affair of appreciation and to this day we open gifts the same way, one-by-one, person-by-person, with heartfelt thanks whenever any of us can manage to get together for Christmas.
And then all the gifts were opened. All the oohs and ahhhs done. And it was coming up on 7:00 AM and time for Christmas breakfast — and likely another pot of coffee for my folks. This was the best breakfast of the year as a rule (although my parents also had a fondness for Shit on a Shingle — creamed, chipped beef on toast — on Christmas morning). Planned in advance and often involving treats like coffee cake or waffles with homemade strawberry jam or even Welsh Rabbit. Hot cocoa wasn't unusual and neither was hot cider with butter and a cinnamon stick.
Those Christmases are mostly a blur more than 30 years later. But I still make a point of planning breakfast on Christmas morning. Even when it's only me. And I still open each gift Christmas morning, one at a time, with love and appreciation.
I hope the gifts are good, but breakfast is more dependable. Merry Christmas everyone.
Here are a few breakfast ideas...
Apple/Ricotta Coffee Cake
Welsh Rabbit
Basic Cheese Souffle









